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Doc on Couples for You, Your Marriage,
Your Family & Your Special Personal Relationships:
Instead of Dry Clinical Symptoms; I thought I'd leave You a Listing below of the Different Kinds of Very Human: Issues, Feelings, Frustrations, Hurt, Situations & Suffering, that You may be Experiencing and for You to Look through and see if Anything Strikes a Chord with You and Your Personal Circumstances...
Also A Vital Note about Your Children: Over the Years in Private Practice, as You can Imagine, I've Dealt with All Kinds of Couples, Family, Marriage & Relationship Difficulties. The Most Important & Notable Part of This is that It is Almost Always Limited to Adults. Please Do Know that Your Children, even Before They Can Speak, are Severely Affected by Your Families Conditions, Problems, Moods & Trauma. What Happens Here as A Couple, Sets a Strong Life Path for Their Entire Lives!
From Doc: Marriage & Family Counseling is Usually A Combination of Individual Sessions and Joint Sessions, with You and Your Spouse or Family. We Offer this in a Convenient Way, e.g. Virtually on Your Cell Phones or Telephones and also by Conference Calling and for:
Our Folks Who are Very Busy and Quite Comfortable with Phone Convenience. This has worked remarkably well over the years, as an Easy and Private Means of Personal Therapy, Couples, Family & Marriage Counseling throughout North America, and now actually globally.
Again Instead of a Dry Explanation of Symptoms & Situations & Sufferings;
I Am Offering You "A LIVING LIST" of Client's and Patient's;
Feelings ~ Thoughts ~ Frustrations ~ Sufferings.
I Hope These Will Help with Your Personally Understanding that "You are Not Alone" and & also Help to Explain to Others What You are Going Through!
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When You Need Relief and Direction.
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"It's Like They Sing: Two Different Worlds...We Live In..."
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"We are Sadly Drifting Apart, Something's Really Missing..."
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"I don't know him/her anymore." "Who are you, my spouse?"
"How can we have changed so much over the years?"
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"You're different now. I mean a really different person than the
one I thought I married." "I'm confused, afraid, lost, disappointed..."
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When there are confidential and personal issues,
serious decisions and major changes needing attention.
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"It seems like I'm doing this all alone."
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"I'm afraid. I'm confused." "What do I do with this?"
"I know I care but I don't think I'm in love anymore."
"But what's love anyway? What does it mean?"
"What's it supposed to feel like? What does it really feel like?"
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"We're not talking, sharing or communicating."
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"I feel walled off. No one's listening anymore."
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"I'm Way Too Sad, Feeling Depressed and Really Lonely."
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"Well I thought I was Depressed but I;m feeling hurt & disappointed."
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"I'm not heard, valued, appreciated or understood."
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"Yes that's it, there's no gratitude, just expectations."
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"I'm always wrong. It seems everything's my fault."
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"I'm really frustrated. I just can't seem to get through."
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"There have been so many broken dreams and promises."
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"I hate these times of silences, bickering and tension."
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"I don't think I can handle this heartache much longer."
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"I try so hard to give but I end up being hurt and used."
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"I think that I'm just about at the end of my patience."
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"I don't think I can handle this heartache much longer."
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"I've been sad, lonely and disappointed for too long."
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"I'm terrified of being alone and worse abandoned."
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"It just seems so hopeless. Is there any chance for us?"
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"Just where are we headed or will we ever be..."
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"Where do we go? What do we do? How do we fix this?"
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"We've been married a while(few years or a few decades),
& there are times when I see we are on different wave lengths or
have different priorities or more scarily, I'm terrified that we
don't have very much in common anymore. God Helps Us!"
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"I understand disease and sickness but my spouse
refuses to get treatment."
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"The children are hurting."
"We just never know what to expect."
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"It's also always my fault for
not understanding a poor, sick person."
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"I'm being manipulated and handed guilt trips."
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"I realize now that I also have a problem."
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"Do you have any idea how much you hurt me?"
"Sometimes I think you just don't have a clue."
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There's Anger, degradation, sarcasm, comparison with others...
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"Sometimes I think you are cruel and selfish."
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"Sometimes, even though I an suffering from
your treatment of me, I feel very sorry for you."
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"Am I sick or co-dependent or something to take this."
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When you need to work through a divorce
and don't want your children to suffer...
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"I remember when we were first married. What happened to that?
"Yes I realize we're not adolescents anymore, lol, but there are some
basic things we were and did that I miss very much.
Can we realistically recapture that?"
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Retiring Soon or Retired Now...Good Full Life...Kids All Grown...
"Say, I Remember You, but it's been a long, long time..."
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"I don't know if I know you anymore?"
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"I am not your ex-wife! or I am not your ex-husband."
"Why an I paying for your past marriage?"
"Why do you still have emotional baggage with your ex?"
"I see you're still angry, or is it hurt or is it: hung up with some
unresolved feelings. I'm afraid you're still in love with the Ex!"
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"I have a personal (or secret) emotional problem and I'm suffering
with it and I didn't realize it, but now I See, it's not fair, but my spouse
is paying for it. It's time to get it out in the open or get it fixed!"
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"We do not communicate anymore, you know, really get through."
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"We just don't understand each other."
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"He doesn't understand me."
" She doesn't understand me."
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" I don't know if we're even capable of
a reasonable conversation anymore."
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"I do it all! Knock , knock, is anyone interested in helping?"
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When One of You is very in charge and in control of everything.
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"I'm terrified to complain or say anything about this."
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"I work hard to support this family. My dad taught me this.
I love you all very much. What else do you want from me?"
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Workaholic, ETC!
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Wife's Profession is a threat.
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One is growing by leaps and bounds, professionally, emotionally, spiritually, etc. and the other is not. Who is disappointed? Who is threatened? Who is afraid of abandonment? Who is Lonely?
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"I don't want you to advance and leave me behind!"
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MORE ISSUES:
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Is this a: One is the Parent and One is the Child Marriage?
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One is romantic and intimate and
the other is cold and not affectionate.
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Pressures: Career, Work and Travel Demands, Finances,
Life Style Changes, Moves to A Different Location,
Children, Step Children and Being the Real Parent and
Being the Step Parent, Long Term Spousal or Family Member:
Chronic Illness, Handicap, Ongoing Worries or Problematic Pressures...
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When there are parenting problems, step parent
troubles or a new family and life to adjust to.
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A mother, father or family member that has too much to say about your marriage and how it Should be and too much influence on you and your spouse's relationship.
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A Powerful, GUILT PRODUCING Family Member...
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A Mother's Devoted Son ~ A Father's Daughter or
Daddy's Little Girl. No, It's a good and healthy if normal, but not
if it controls or rules your love and relationship with your spouse.
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Mother's devoted Son type
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Father's Daughter or Daddy's Little Girl.
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One is clean or obsessive and or the other is a not or a pig.
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One is emotional, reactive or even hysterical and
the other is easy going and laid back or even apathetic.
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Never stops talking...no real content...
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The Gossip:
"I'm tired of hearing about everyone else's private matters."
"It drives me crazy..." "I now avoid contact as much as possible."
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Never wants to say much... "I want to communicate and
know you and what you are thinking and who you are."
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Degrading, mistrust and insulting my integrity and hurting me deeply by a paranoid, angry and accusing checking my personal stuff, mail handbag, post office box. Finding Disillusioned & Ridiculous EVIDINECE of My Unfaithfulness. Accusing Me of having An Affair.
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"I am regularly insulted by being questioned about my every move
when I'm not with my spouse." "It's like a prison without walls."
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"I just think I can't take much more of this."
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"I'm having an affair and feel justified in it or
I'm having an affair and feel very regretful for it."
"Should I Confess..." "Should I Divorce?"
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Always getting in to arguments and having problems with other people particularly in public and complaining about services of products or services, etc. I just want to run away or " I don't know this person!!!
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Also those public anger displays and embarrassing situations...
- Questions, Fear and Distrust...
- "It just seems so hopeless. Is there any chance for us?"
* Part 2: Some Marriage Bible Verses, Only if You'd Like.
From Doc to You: If you can relate to some of the feelings &
thoughts listed above & you'd like to make some changes and get relief:
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* Part 2: Some Marriage Bible Verses, Only if You'd Like.
Part 2.
Some Marriage Verses, if you'd like...
Gen.2:18, 24. The Lord God said, " It is not good for man to be alone. I will make him a helper suitable for him." For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh."
Eph. 5:23: "The husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior."
Eph. 5:25: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."
Col. 3:19: " Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them."
1 Peter 3:7: "Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you in the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers." Evidently, a man's prayers and whether God answers them or not depends on how he treats his wife.
Gal. 5:15. " If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other."
Eph. 5:22-24 " Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the Church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything."
1 Peter 3:1-2 Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without any talk by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.
1 Corinthians 7 NIV
Marriage
1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. 2But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
8Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. 9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.
12To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
15But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 16How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
17Nevertheless, each one should retain the place in life that the Lord assigned to him and to which God has called him. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. 18Was a man already circumcised when he was called? He should not become uncircumcised. Was a man uncircumcised when he was called? He should not be circumcised. 19Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Keeping God's commands is what counts. 20Each one should remain in the situation which he was in when God called him. 21Were you a slave when you were called? Don't let it trouble you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so. 22For he who was a slave when he was called by the Lord is the Lord's freedman; similarly, he who was a free man when he was called is Christ's slave. 23You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of men. 24Brothers, each man, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation God called him to.
25Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy. 26Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are. 27Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. 28But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.
29What I mean, brothers, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they had none; 30those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; 31those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away.
32I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.
36If anyone thinks he is acting improperly toward the virgin he is engaged to, and if she is getting along in years and he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. They should get married. 37But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion but has control over his own will, and who has made up his mind not to marry the virgin—this man also does the right thing. 38So then, he who marries the virgin does right, but he who does not marry her does even better.
39A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. 40In my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God.
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1 Corinthians 7 KJV
1Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
6But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.
7For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
8I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.
9But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
10And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
12But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
13And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
15But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
16For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
17But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.
18Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised.
19Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.
20Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.
21Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather.
22For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's servant.
23Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.
24Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.
25Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.
26I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.
27Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.
28But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.
29But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;
30And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not;
31And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.
32But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
34There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
36But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.
37Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well.
38So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.
39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
40But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.
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